Become a Queen of Unshakeable Confidence, in life and love!

If you want to be your best YOU, live your best LIFE and find your best LOVE, then I can help!

Tell me lovely lady…

  • Are you struggling to get back out into the dating world, feeling like you've been there and done that and you're not getting anywhere with finding the right man for you?

  • Have you come out of a long-term relationship and feeling bruised, and maybe have a dent in your self-esteem, reluctant to try again? Or you don't know where things went wrong when you thought you had found THE guy?

  • Do you want to be able to date with confidence in yourself, and in your ability to attract the right man to you? The kind of man who will fit in seamlessly into your life, with your friends and family? Do you want to have fun and see it as an adventure rather than a chore?

Then I can help!

What if I told you that dating doesn't have to be an uphill struggle, and instead of getting burned out on your dating journey, you could actually have fun?

What if I told you that those unsuccessful short-term relationships and flings were all part of your journey to finding the RIGHT one? 

Coach Tope
 
 

Hi lovely lady! I'm Coach Tope, a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for single professional and entrepreneurial women, and member of the Relationship Coaching Institute.

My mission in life is to help busy, hardworking women like you to feel amazing about themselves, have a life that lights them up and attract the relationship that fully aligns with them. 

On the journey to finding the love of my life, I've had my own challenges with being able to attract the right men into my life, and battling with my self-belief and self-worth along the way.  I know what it's like to struggle with feelings of worthiness, lack of self-confidence, and wondering if I'll ever find love and a man that will fit into my existing family set-up, or whether I was even worthy of it.  

The self

Your Self

Lacking self-belief and self-love is the first hurdle to having a successful and fulfilling relationship. We often don't realise how much our lack of love and confidence in ourselves enables the wrong men into our orbit. If we don't value ourselves, then how can we expect others to treat us as we deserve? 

This is an area I feel passionately about, and put my heart and soul into empowering women to love themselves first and foremost. I will help you to have the most confidence in who you are, and tackle and work through any of the thoughts and beliefs you hold about yourself that stand in the way of you realising how amazing and worthy you are. And when you feel amazing and worthy, you will only draw men of high value to you too. It all starts with you. 

 

Your Life

It can be easy to get caught up and focus heavily on wanting a relationship, sometimes expecting it to be the answer to some of our problems, that once we have a relationship then everything else will fall into place. In truth, we need to have a life that lights us up and have a relationship that is an amazing bonus to our life. 

I will help you to discover your purpose and vision for your life, and help you to create the goals for your life that will help you meet that vision. When you focus on  making your life great, and having an attitude of gratitude you will attract more of what you want. 

 

Your Relationships

One of the biggest obstacles with attracting the right person is knowing exactly who that right person is. Often we can get ourselves into relationships with men because it feels good for the short-term and we form an attachment and find it hard to walk away, even though we were not even meant to be with them in the first place. Have you heard of the expression trying to fit a square peg in a round hole? 

I will help you get clarity on the kind of relationship you really want and desire in your life, and support you to believe that you can really have it. We will work on where you can find what you're looking for, and I will guide you as you go on your dating journey. 

Client testimonials

  • “Tope has had such a profound impact on me I don't even know where to begin explaining. She hands down changed my life. I truly believe she's one of the main reasons why things are finally starting to fall into place. The best decision and investment I've ever made. I always feel supported, understood, and at ease. It was nice to talk to someone and not feel judged or hear the same usual advice.”

    — Tina

  • “My sessions with Tope saved my life. I know that sounds so dramatic to say, but pretty much for the majority of my life I've struggled with feelings of anxiety and depression, and not even recognising those feelings for what they were. Tope did such an incredible job of allowing me to fully step outside of myself and assess my insecurities and negative emotions for what they really were.”

    — Hannah

  • “Tope is really intuitive and skillful as a coach and I felt she really listened to what I had to say with regards to my relationships. She was compassionate and understanding during the sessions and helped me to reflect on aspects of myself I hadn't really considered before but which were impacting the way I approached relationships.”

    — Mary

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